*"The conversation I’m going to have with my parents now that I’ve turned down t...

"The conversation I’m going to have with my parents now that I’ve turned down this job is more of a concern to me than turning down the job,"

That's what jumped out at me as the giant, blinking, neon sign. You and I can't turn down an offer and still complain.

But a kid with that mindset absolutely will. He has absolutely no perspective. His parents and grandparents have raised him within Plato's Cave.