I'm not calling him a liar. I just pointed out that he can't prove his site of it and neither can they. It may even be that both parties are telling the truth (for instance because of some overactive spam filter). Personally I wished that if they did contact them and it did not work that they would now take the suspension under review (assuming contact has by now been solidly re-established). But I think that NIC.ly is not going to change their mind, they have their views on morals and standards and (as PG suggested) might have had ulterior motives (also impossible to prove or disprove) so it is simply not going to go anywhere from what I can see.

Lessons learned:

  - don't rely on domains in regions where you have no representation

  - have a plan B if you do

  - if you can't read the text don't agree to it

  - don't waste time trying to convince parties with
    other views on morals that they're wrong (especially
    if those morals have been dicated by some religious
    views)