There's the middle-ground approach of having primarily target-specific operations but with intersecting ones named the same, and allowing easily building custom abstractions on top of such to paper over the differences how best it makes sense for the given application. That's the approach https://github.com/mlochbaum/Singeli takes.
There's a good amount of stuff that can clearly utilize SIMD without much platform-specificness, but doesn't easily autovectorize - early-exit checks in a loop, packed bit boolean stuff, some data rearranging, probing hashmap checks, some very-short-variable-length-loop things. And while there might often be some parts that do just need to be entirely target-specific, they'll usually be surrounded by stuff that doesn't (the loop, trip count calculation, loads/stores, probably some arithmetic).
There's a good amount of stuff that can clearly utilize SIMD without much platform-specificness, but doesn't easily autovectorize - early-exit checks in a loop, packed bit boolean stuff, some data rearranging, probing hashmap checks, some very-short-variable-length-loop things. And while there might often be some parts that do just need to be entirely target-specific, they'll usually be surrounded by stuff that doesn't (the loop, trip count calculation, loads/stores, probably some arithmetic).